Success and also Acceptance

Success does not imply that every scenario we come across will lead to financial, individual or social gain, or whatever assumption of ‘success’ we might have. It indicates that, also where the situation does not look like it’s exercising, we recognise the possibility for an effective learning procedure and it does not end up being an attack or a recommendation of separation, seclusion and also anxiety.

You put on’; t have to purchase into that eternal loophole of Self-criticism, Self-doubt, fear and elimination from the reality. Rather, whatever the result, utilize every circumstance as a knowing opportunity.

In your day-to-day experience, the objective is making success continuous. Discover how to be less accepting of failing and also have a higher openness to success. You put on; t need to see your Self without hope.

Absolutely nothing is ever before helpless.

Instruct your Self to be as you would want your Self to be. See your Self as someone you would strive to admire and someone you would certainly value for their sincerity, integrity and also Self-belief. Settle to not hesitate or frightened or excessively inhabited with the outcome of any type of situation in life. If your emphasis is on remaining in a location of joy with your Self, then that’s all that issues, not based on 3rd party point of view, however with the realisation that ‘I am ending up being the me I want to be’Â

In watching the world in this manner, you begin to see actual possibilities and also you’re currently offering your Self a real chance to ultimately claim ‘I’m fine. I’m a job in progress, but presume just what, I’m alright’.

Recognizing your I’m Okay Factor is where all success starts. Now you’re taking the weight of the globe off your Self since you’re taking actions in the direction of signing up with life, not in fear, however in true Self-expression, with a true function and a much better acceptance of who you are.

You are ending up being ‘Â the brave me’. So now the world comes to be a college teaching you the worth of your Self and not a fearful area.

The way you see the globe ends up being the world you intend to see.

Beginning to see your Self as the Self you wish to be. Being complimentary originates from your perception of freedom. Achieving success comes from your assumption of success. We all get caught in assumption – our assumption of strength, our assumption of weak point.

Success only needs that your approval of your inherent right to success is stronger compared to your approval of your feeling of failing.

Geoffrey J Canavan, Success Professional, entrepreneur as well as author of ‘Soleved! The Truth about Genuine Success’

Success as well as Identity

We have all already established an identity. Don’t hesitate to allow this identity be for adjustment.

In several instances we discover ourselves adapting to situations, virtually like being various personalities in a play. This provides rise to the numerous faces of the one person, acting out various duties in various scenarios, being different points for various people and also so typically concealing our true Self.

Success is not around ideal or incorrect.

It’s everything about being real.

Even if this reality shows a human vulnerability and an unpredictability it is providing an opportunity to plug back right into the person you are worthy of to be, which is the successful You.

Regretfully, we could all determine a lot a lot more with exactly what we really did not do than with our achievements. We can (as well as do) excellent failure. Losing call with the truth of my Self is the breeding place where failing is conceived, where concern is birthed and also where susceptability expands.

My true effective Self is never ever shed yet usually overshadowed as I reside in hope of peeks of the joy that some component of me recognizes I so genuinely deserve.

Therefore, if I take a look at my life through the past – where I could have seen my Self as a failing – I discover it hard to see a future that consists of a really effective Self. That’s just humanity however we can transform that view

Change begins with awareness and also understanding starts from the factor of realisation that we are not alone in this breakable human globe. Whether you’re a king or a poor man, human nature is humanity. Everyone, at some point in their lives, endures the very same feeling of inadequacies. Everybody has frailties. This is absolutely nothing to conceal. It becomes part of being human as well as being human is exactly what has us here

When we recognise that we are all beginning from the very same area we now begin to really feel less conscious of our own fears as well as even more available to achievement. The very best as well as most successful people shares the same instability problems as everyone else.

Success is available to everybody despite where we began or just what took place to us along the method.

The possibility to be all you want to be is waiting. Your idea system as well as your gratitude of your Self is all it requires to begin your journey to being the successful You. Simply bear in mind, you were birthed this way.

Continually advise your Self that success is your right and also that you really can be the person you intend to be. Be prepared to choose just what you desire. Choose not to be sidetracked or to allow previous failings to dominate your thinking and hold you caught in a cycle of want. Be open for adjustment.

Geoffrey J Canavan, Success Professional, entrepreneur and author of ‘Fixed! The Truth regarding Genuine Success’

Success and also Your Self

You could just assume for your Self when you come to be aware of just how you justify your failing (or your lack of success) it’s time to analyze exactly how you can correct that (unless you wish to stay in the loop of failing, which numerous people discover even more comfy, due to the fact that they have actually ended up being really effective at being a failure).

Background repeats in all degrees. That’s why – because improvement – you have to escape the suggestion that we run individually as well as accept that we operate entirely as one entity. Addition is an essential part of success.

Everyone is dealing with a tough battle. Everybody encounters difficult difficulties every now and then.

All impacts provide an opportunity to look at the globe anyhow we select, appropriately or mistakenly, for far better or worse. It is so very easy to drop right into that catch of scared decision-making, giving increase to different interests with separation being our experience. This feeds even more splitting up and also further seclusion where our true capacity as an individual of addition, success as well as approval can not emerge as well as quits us becoming the success we intend to be.

Taking ownership of your own success is crucial, even if all you can handle currently are the very first child step of having the desire to wake up eventually and claim ‘yes I desire to break this cycle as well as I am prepared to in some way aim to see my globe from a different perspective. I intend to stop the Self loss as well as I could begin today’.

Clichà © d as it could appear, today truly is the initial day of the rest of your life. Inspire your Self in the knowledge as well as belief that you can develop a different world than the one you have come to know.

Be courageous in your option to find your very own freedom.

Do not put a worth on the indispensable Self that is You. Very useful means no limitations. Value establishes a limit. Be priceless in your very own Self-worth.

You do not leave Self-doubt by bringing it to elsewhere. There is no someplace else. You leave it by just recognizing the power of your ability to pick.

You have the right to select happiness.

Basic and also simple, this is the effective secret to opening your globe of abundance. Unrestricted, you could make that decision right now. Freedom is your own without constraint. View your world with as much understanding as possible as well as become aware that you pick to experience the globe you want.

Failure is forgetting to remember the chances you can offer to your Self.

Geoffrey J Canavan, Success Professional, company proprietor and writer of ‘Solved! The Fact about Genuine Success’

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Your Success is Not My Success

Success is not so much what we have as it is what we are. Jim Rohn

I attended a seminar recently, in which business coaching as a profession was discussed, and what results can be had by actually being coached. To prove the point, slides of fast and luxury cars, big houses, expensive trips, first class travel, shiny jewelry and the like were shown.
By doing so, I realised that the presenter had probably lost 30-50% of his audience immediately. 
Why? Because for many personality types within the AusIDentities range, “success” is not about garnering expensive goodies at all. Showing these personality types the above mentioned slides to motivate them will generally have the opposite effect….
The issue here is “success” and two critical questions associated with this concept: 1) what does the word “success” really mean to you, and 2) where does success sit on your values list?
1) Success for the one is obviously not success for the other, but we seem to have some sort of collective consciousness about success. That’s the one I was talking about in the beginning. We seem to believe, as a collective, that making lots of money, driving flash cars, living in beautiful homes is the pinnacle of success, and is what we should strive for. Anything less than that would make you less successful, or even unsuccessful. 
My opinion is that we are WAY off a balanced idea of what success really is if we only focus on professional or business success. For instance:
How about:
• the relationship with your partner
• the relationship with your children, family, friends
• your health
• your stress levels
• your personal development
• your work-life balance
• your attitude towards yourself
• etc.
All these factors have to come into play as well when we look at how “successful” someone is. If we only look at the amount of money someone makes, or the “stuff” that this person owns (or has bought with hefty loans!), we diminish our own feeling of success, and will feel bad about that. Moreover, as I said before, for many personality types within the AusIDentities range, a successful life is not about money and prestige per se at all.
The point I am making is this: we are all “successful” one way or another. It just depends on which are of life we are shining a light. Stay away from falling in the (collective consciousness) trap which identifies success with WORLDLY success. You will only punish yourself when you are not “successful” in that definition. As stated before: you ARE successful; we all are. Make a good habit of looking at the areas in life where you consider yourself to be successful. It will help you balance yourself out, and feel good about who you are and what you do (which, in Law of Attraction terms, is the ONE thing life is all about: feeling good).

2) Success is a value. Something we consider important in our lives. In previous articles I have already stated that the way we arrange our values will dictate what we go after in our professional and/or personal lives. The question you have to ask yourself, given your definition of success, is: where does success “sit” in my values priority?
I must admit that for a long time I defined success as “worldly success”, which meant that the things I really am good at did not make me feel successful at all. This lopsided idea of my own success threw me off even further when I gave up my position as an associate within the law firm I was working for. Suddenly, I was not as “successful” as I was before. It became even more apparent when we emigrated, and started with pretty much nothing. No “success” at all…..
Over the years I have realised that I have often tapped into the unconscious collective belief around success, and have beaten myself up over not measuring up to that standard. A contributing factor was that my twisted definition of success did not show up high in my values list either…… I just wasn’t into making loads of money and becoming well-known.
I have since established that my private definition of “success” really has NOTHING to do with that collective consciousness, but shows up EVERYWHERE in my daily actions: I have a wonderful relation with my partner and daughter, look after my body really well, look after my mental and spiritual health well, and have great variety in my life, which is really important. In that respect I am TOTALLY successful.
Now, I don’t want to beat my own drum here, but want to impress on you that YOU are successful as well, in many areas of your life. You merely have to identify them, and get clear on your personal definition of success. Again, if you keep living up to others’ definition of success, while they don’t conform to your own, you will have a tough life. And that is NOT the idea of our existence on this planet, is my firm belief.
Set a LandMarc:
Firstly, come clean on how you have defined “success” in your personal and professional life. When, or under what circumstances do you consider yourself successful? 
Secondly, in how far is your success definition influenced by what “others” say success is? How much do you look at the “outside world” to define your success? Does that way of looking at it give you a good feeling overall, or do you feel you lack, in terms of success?
Thirdly, how high does success rank on your values list, given your success definition? How much time, energy, money, thought etc. do you give to being successful? Or are you looking at other values in your life (relaxation, socializing, pursuit of knowledge etc.) more than success?
Lastly, given the statement that everyone is successful at many things in their lives, identify at least three areas in yours that you know can be thought of as successful. Do you really FEEL successful about these? If not, start looking at these areas more closely, and start appreciating your skills and (cap)abilities for what they really are. Remember: success breeds success!
I want to state it again: if you keep looking at others to measure your own success, you will probably never feel good enough about yourself. There will always be other who do things “better”. The key to your success is to look at where you are already successful, and build from there. Law of Attraction will assist when you take that first step, and you know that a journey of 1,000 miles starts with that first step.
To your success!

Marc is a certified life/business coach, master NLP Practitioner and AusIDentities Personalities Facilitator on the Sunshine Coast in Queensland, Australia.

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Imagining Success

Envisioning your Success

. Exactly what is it that thing that holds you back from acheiving success and also satisfying your dreams

. Could it be cash? Time? Absence of get in touches with or sources?

. More than likely it is the anxiety of failing. You are not the only one whatsoever since this is the one
. biggest stumbling block to success that people share.

. The reality is that everyone has failings and also established backs in the process, often most of them. At some time you have to deal with dangers and also stay clear of running from them. The secret is to concentrate on winning and prevent playing “not to shed”. Is that were the saying scared money never wins? I believe so.

. When points don’t work out as planned, just make certain that you obtain back up, regardless of how hard it might seem. Whenever that you do, you will certainly be smarter, tougher, stronger, and much better prepared for the next possibility. There never ever is any type of reversing, constantly tip ahead also if the actions at very first are little ones.

. I want to include the following from some one you are familar with however might not have actually assumed of in regards to
.” Vizualizing Success”.

. What would certainly you do today if you recognized you could not Fail?
. If you had an absolute warranty of Success .( whatever you develop that to be),
. what would you

do? . Exactly how would you act? What would you
Would certainly you . celebrate your success beforehand? Would certainly you appreciate your
. endeavor a lot more? Exactly how would you live your life and also how would certainly
. you perform your business? .
My hunch is that if you had such an assurance, you would do
. things much differently. You would not let ‘fear’ of anything
. hold you back, no worry of failure, no anxiety of success. You would certainly
. not allow ‘doubt’ creep into your thoughts and also paralyze your actions.
. You would certainly not compare yourself with others and take too lightly
. your very own contribution. If you had some being rejected along the means,
. you would blow it off as well as take place, since it would not matter because
. you were mosting likely to do well anyhow. If someone does not see that, it
. doesn’t injure you due to the fact that you have an assurance of success.

. You would certainly proceed as well as live with the self-confidence, poise and also passion
. that would absolutely drive you to your imagine success. You
. would certainly take the necessary as well as the extraordinary actions making
. your desire a fact with no thought since you could not stop working
. and of training course, even when success is guaranteed, activity is needed.

. So why not act? Use your creativity. Act like you have the
. ironclad, well-founded guarantee that you will certainly have the success you prefer.
. It’s your dream; make it genuine in your personal mind. Play the video game and
. picture the result. Beginning ‘acting as if’ you have that guarantee.
. After that see what takes place.

. ‘And will you do well? Yes! You will without a doubt!
. (98 Â 3/4 percent assured)’ Dr. Seuss 1904-1991

. The above section was written by a person that you could NOT have expected.
. Understood as Dr Suess, his actual name was Theodor Seuss Geisel. While he really did not begin out as anauthor of childrens books, he had worked as a cartoonist. The first publication that he both created and also illustrated was declined 27 times. Later he did experience success with his standards” The Feline in The Hat”” Environment-friendly Eggs and also Pork” and also “How the Grinch Swipes Xmas”

. Over 200 million duplicates of his publications have actually been sold all over the world and have been equated into 15 different languages. Among his other achievements are two Academy awards, Emmy awards, a Peabody honor and a Pulitzer Prize.

It looks like Dr Suess knew “The Secret” long prior to it end up being popular like it is today. Imagine your success. See yourself successful, Expect that you will certainly be, and play the video game.

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Successful Ideas Bring Success

Do effective ideas actually bring in successes? Exactly what is success, actually? Exactly how do thoughts transform an individual?

First points initially: success is not the very same for everybody.

Although we all understood of lots of people who were thought about universal successes, everyone, past or existing, still has a various perspective what success is everything about. These consist of how their own success meant to them, and also how they gauge these successes in each of their private expectation.

Donald Trump may add one more “feather” of success to his hat the minute an additional among his high-end hotels rise either in Las Vegas or New York.

The late Mom Teresa’s concept of success was probably being able to finish feeding everybody in a huge leper facility in Calcutta, and also had ended up conference with to a group of firm heads who would love to contribute to her charity.

In his heyday, Michael Jordan showed to the globe his formula of success (“Practice makes perfect”) in all his video games and was successful in practically all of them.

The research and also application of success and also the varying levels of its execution as well as details had actually expanded right into one huge sector today. They are full of researchers, psycho therapists, motivators, along with charlatans, supposed new age gurus, and also some ordinary quick-fix manipulators.

Filtering chaff from the grain, there could be some standard truths to it. We might also consider them and also do our very own sifting.

At the time when popularity and fortune were nearly identified, when wealth was the very first criterion of success, Andrew Carnegie, appointed a young as well as industrious writer Napoleon Hill to do a popular research study. Carnegie wanted to discover exactly how the various other abundant men make their lot of money as well as what makes them tick generally.

1st premise: You are what you think you are

If you have actually not thought, or even visualized yourself to be like any one of the individuals listed above in the future, then you shall all be exactly what you are right now.

If you had actually assumed of yourself to make simply enough loan to feed your youngsters and your partner, earning enough to pay your costs as well as taxes – then that is just what you are right now. If you have thought about not much, then you do not have much

. In other words, you are the sum total of all your thoughts all your life approximately this point.

In time, it was confirmed that success was not regarding the outcome of opportunity, neither of actions by others against you, neither even events of Nature that seemed to be conspiring against you.

Thoughts to action, to outcomes

Other individuals could prevent you, make your development slower, but they can NEVER EVER stop you. The universe may have brought some natural disasters like flooding and also storms to postpone you. Yet unless these had actually killed you, they could never stop you.

The only individual that could stop you is merely YOU.

At this moment in your life, you are who you are and also where you are since of your current ideas. As well as at any time from hereon, you could alter your ideas, as well as for this reason, your life.

Altering your thoughts just implies taking control of them. We have to increase our understanding to ideas that have actually controlled us without our recognizing it. These thoughts will come to be behaviors and practices end up being automated activities (or inactiveness).

Successful ideas bring success?

One expert said: “Whatever you attain or stop working to achieve in your life is the direct outcome of your personal thoughts!”

Rephrase, a guy’s thinking could relocate one to success, or maintain one where he is, or unfortunately own him down right into the reduced depths of his mind.

Your level of success in life remains in straight proportion to your capability and also determination to route your ideas.

Successful thoughts bring success? You can bet on it.

Relocate your effective thinking into activity to bring success

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Success and Opportunity

Begin each day by realising that you are for your Self. Be powerful in the presence of who you really are and what you want to be. Align your Self with your birthright, which is success. Fear comes from feeling inadequate and it’s quite natural for all of us to feel this way. It doesn’t mean that you are inadequate and it doesn’t mean you can’t control those feelings, but you can liberate your Self by knowing how you work.

Powerless you are not. Inadequate you never were.

Success has more to do with how you see the world, how you see your own circumstances and how you change your perception of what you see.

You can attract success just as easily as you can attract failure.

Don’t lose sight of being practical and using common sense without agendas, without the complications from past experiences.

Wanting to change something in life or business is the beginning of opening the door of possibility. The opportunity for change is conceived in the wanting to change and born from the willingness to change. Remember that it is only as you look, you learn.

Overcoming apparent difficulties is all part of the learning. Assessing the difficulties and seeing them from a different perspective presents you with the opportunity to change.

Because something was difficult to overcome in the past doesn’t mean it has to be like that in the future.

All you’re doing is breaking a cycle and re-engaging from a place of inclusion as opposed to focusing all your attention on the separateness of the situation.

Eventually it becomes a natural process. Then your reason and your ability to make decisions and then your justification starts to change, gradually at first, more easily as you proceed.

Eventually every day is a day of opportunity and every day is an experience of success, bearing in mind the need to be gentle with your Self and patient with the process.

Geoffrey J Canavan, Success Expert, business owner and author of ‘Solved! The Truth about Real Success’

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Success and Perception

Perception determines who we are.

Perception is a choice that offers options of how we want to view the world. We can choose to see nothing but a dangerous and frightening world or nothing but a friendly and happy world – or something in between.

Whatever way we decide to perceive the world, we will automatically seek out and always find evidence to support our choice. If I decide that life is a struggle, life will do its best to prove me right. If I decide to view life as an exciting adventure, that’s what my life is.

A situation that I consider a big problem you might see as an exciting opportunity – and we will both be right! You might feel that traffic jams provide productive time to listen to some uplifting music or inspirational CDs and I might see them as frustrating, time-wasting nuisances – and we’re both right! So my perception of the traffic jam – or any situation – determines how I will experience it.

Perception is my instrument of understanding.

My perception enables me to find reasons to justify my perception. I see the world as dangerous and frightening because …. or I see the world as friendly and happy because …

Our experience of failure, past or present, has a huge influence on how we actually understand the world and the template that influences our thinking and our decision-making. We can use this template to be Self-motivating or Self-defeating, challenging or inspiring.

It is very easy to use past failures as the main influences on present choices.

Recurring themes of failure are evident when the template of choice remains rooted in a thought system where failure, disappointment and frustration are the main influences. Letting go of the past is a primary step in determining a far more successful and fulfilling future.

If something you have used consistently doesn’t work, stop using it. If your past template for decision-making is keeping you in a limiting loop then stop using that template.

To apply this principle to a relationship of any nature we can look at the recurring theme of failure and then justify it by reasoning why the relationship didn’t succeed. We can always find a reason why the business meeting went wrong, why the sale didn’t happen, why the love affair ended.

It is never hard to find tags of failure to attach to any situation.

They are usually accompanied by the by-line ‘it was not my fault’. This is the common misperception that everything is outside our control and therefore not our fault; all reasoned by our acceptance of failure, based on the decision-making influences that are coming from our past.

I have often heard expressions such as ‘knowing my luck, it’ll go wrong’ or ‘if I had ducks, they’d drown’. This becomes an acceptance of ‘what can go wrong will go wrong’, rather than even an attempt to somehow change old patterns and find a new focus of Self-confidence.

There is no truth in this ‘it’s not my fault’ view because we are taking on board the aspect of acceptance without justification, which then becomes a substitute for failure.

And so we have a vicious cycle of uncorrected errors where nothing is learned and the only thing we take ownership of is the reason of doubt and the reason of Self-defeat.

Geoffrey J Canavan, Success Expert, business owner and author of ‘Solved! The Truth about Real Success’

Success and Choice

Being really successful is about mining the potential of who you are and what you can do. Achieving this success is a great expression of your Self. It is a real natural process and a real unveiling to the world of the true You.

Nobody is born a failure but our attraction to the failed process or the failed anything, can become an addiction.

We can choose to keep going back to where we are imprisoned by our own belief system and by our own attachment to loss and to fear and ultimately to failure. This loop automatically repeats itself until we choose differently. Just look around and you will see that so many of us are attracted to recurring bad situations, as if to give up on our natural birthright of success.

Within the loop of limitation it becomes very hard to step outside that cycle, particularly as we are so conditioned by our day to day commitments; ‘I have to work, I have to take care of the kids’ ‘I have to organise the meeting’ etc. The ‘I Have to Syndrome’ is a bit like a treadmill; it is difficult, but not impossible, to stop. Stopping necessitates seeing your Self correctly and not just as a victim of the ‘I Have to Syndrome’.

Success is never about what you are doing, where you work, where you live, who your friends are, how much you earn or how your life looks. It is always about how you see your Self in any given situation.

These are the situations that make up the world that surrounds you and the world that surrounds you allows you to make judgments about how you function and how you want to be. Your reaction is always based on your Self-value so, in assessing the loop of life, you must assess your Self. Are you on that treadmill and if so, how can you change or give your Self the opportunity to live a little differently?

Learn to look at the world from the perception of your own success. However that may appear, it is yours.

Geoffrey J Canavan, Success Expert, business owner and author of ‘Solved! The Truth about Real Success’

Success and Inclusion

The whole experience of development and successful growth is not about going it alone and doing it all by yourself. It involves a Self-belief system of inclusion. Inclusion is a huge part of any personal or business development.

Inclusion is simple and simple is successful.

The opposite of inclusion is fragmentation. That’s when we all have separate interests and we all take separate views and adopt separate standpoints, which we then feel the need to defend.

The label you’ve attached to your Self – (I am a Liverpool supporter/a victim/a musician/an alcoholic/a mother/an entrepreneur/bad at maths etc) – in order to define who you are within your special relationships and make you feel like you ‘belong’ actually becomes a weapon that keeps you separated. Fragmentation does not lend itself to coherent growth, development and sustainable planning of life and business.

If my life or my business has primarily functioned on the special relationships I use to define myself and my place in the world, I am limiting myself and compromising my success because my decision-making is coloured by fragmentation, rather than inclusion.

But I can change all that by simply adopting a policy of inclusion and oneness of purpose, where goals are not set in isolation and where opportunities are not mimicked by looking at someone else’s apparent success.

Every relationship of value must have a foundation in truth and integrity.

So in other words, we’re not going forward from a place of weakness. We’re going forward from a place of trust and that trust is really coming from within. We are learning once again to trust ourselves, not based on all that has happened yesterday but with greater emphasis on what is happening now and what we really want to happen tomorrow.

This self-trust is like a beacon of our own acceptance and a statement to the world of our entitlement to success.

Out of this comes the expression of how we present ourselves, how we engage with people and how real and valuable interactions happen. Whether it’s a conversation with a friend, a sales meeting or important financial discussions when that inner light of looking to be honest is turned on it will be recognised and appreciated.

When we are operating from that place of fearlessness every relationship is special and no relationship is special. We are not threatened, for better or worse, but are functioning in truth and honesty. The foundation of what we’re building is incredibly strong and holds great truth, with the purpose of progressing into the future.

Many people have little faith in themselves because they don’t realise that success exists within and can be brought out by a simple change of focus.

See your Self as an achiever, a doer and don’t be so hard on your Self. Realise that all your needs can be met – in any area of your life – when you see your Self as you really are, which is 100% acceptable.

Move forward with that depth of awareness that how things were done in the past doesn’t have to influence how they are done in the future. Give your Self a clean sheet. Wipe the blackboard. Move beyond history into your future without bringing along your judgments and preconceived notions of the way the world works.

Take on board the fact that you have an entitlement and a natural inheritance to successful living and happiness.

Geoffrey J Canavan, Success Expert, business owner and author of ‘Solved! The Truth about Real Success’